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- Female Celebrities Now Celebrate Divorce As A Thing Of Pride
- Former B2k member Raz B on life support after bottle attack in China
- Singer Mo Cheddah And Her Nude Photo
- Badagry mob victim Ifechukwudi Nwanipor laid to rest
- This Fake Doctor Deceives Pregnant Woman In Lagos; Taking Delivery Of Babies
- A message to all single ladies - from Charly Boy
- A message to all single ladies - from Charly Boy
- How This Young Lady Dazzled President Jonathan With Power
- How Can A Lady Take This Photo With A Guy and Still Deny?
- Married Woman Caught With Pastor In A Hotel In Lagos
- These Days Men Get Sex Everywhere More Than In Marriage
- See The Bad Habits That Causes Heart Problem
- Uche Jombo and Desmond Elliot way back ...and now!
- Moment officers swooped in to stop sham marriage between Nigerian student and Hungarian woman
- Champions league winning coach Roberto Di Matteo is in Nigeria
- Photos: Genevieve Nnaji Looks Stunning In Native
- Photos: Barbs & Zainab Sheriff Play Golf In Bikinis
- Photos: Mustapha Oniru Weds
- Tiwa Savage Catches Marriage Fever, Tells Her Fiancé Teeblliz It's Time They Get Married
- See Cristiano Ronaldo’s Incredible Car Collection (Photo)
- Photo : Woman Gives Birth To Tortoise After Having A 10Months Pregnancy In Lagos
- See Photos from Popular actress Ayo Adesanya’s surprise private birthday bash
- Photos : Beyonce Shows Off A Blonde Bob At Lunch With Blue Ivy & Hubby Jay-Z
- Why I Donated My kidney To My Brother - Comedian De-Don
- Nigerian Rapper, MODE 9 Breaks Down : I Released An Album, No One Cared! I Will Attack Anybody Who Ask Me Where Have You Been
| Female Celebrities Now Celebrate Divorce As A Thing Of Pride Posted: 17 Aug 2013 07:07 AM PDT  Here are celebs whose marriages have not turned out to be as rosy as expected: In the beginning, they hoped to achieve it big in the entertainment industry promising God and their families that things would go well when their dreams and aspirations come true. But on the contrary, the industry changed them unlike their counterparts like Omotola Jalade who has been married for more than a decade now and is waxing stronger and stronger in her marriage. But the issue now is... what are the factors responsible for these break-ups? Why are the ladies the ones involved in this development? While some say it is a way of being free from any man's command as a husband, others believe that it's due to lust for numerous men and not wanting be under the control of a man who would never want them to star in any obscene role or what not that is prompting their wanting to be free. For Monalisa Chinda, it was alleged that the reason for her marriage breakup with her ex-hubby, Dejo Richards, was money. According to reports, the actress, who had particularly been the bread winner of the household, could not handle the heat of her wealth, part of which comes as Globacom ambassador and decided to let loose what she has been holding together over the years. Her marriage produced one beautiful daughter. Also Clarion Chukwura is one actress who has been married twice but is now single. She has laid the blame for her failed marriages as the price she has to pay as an artiste. While Eucharia Anunobi-Ekwu's case was that of infidelity, she stated that she wanted her marriage with Charles Ekwu to last. But the ex-hubby had other plans as he depended on the actress for his own welfare and that of the family until he was caught red handed making love to their 13-year-old house girl. As for Jennifer Eliogu and husband, the marriage crashed months after she delivered her second son where she lost her husband to a Swiss woman and their apartment at Lekki. But for Fred Amata and Agatha, their case has always served as a case study of Nollywood couple whose marriage hit the rocks as a result of infidelity. Disappointedly, Ngozi Ezeonu was reported to have packed out of her matrimonial home many years ago on account of her husband's alleged infidelity as he dumped her for another woman whom he got pregnant. Then came Shan George who was believed to have first gotten married as a teenager but left the marriage after giving birth to two boys and later walked down the aisle with a US-based guy, Tony Nwaosisi, but found out that the man was married to another woman who had given him children at the time of his marriage to Shan, so she decided to quit the marriage for good. Chika Ike The Nollywood actress finally achieved her divorce from her estranged husband but she may run the risk of being blacklisted by fans as loads of criticisms keep rocking her boat since she publicly announced that she's officially divorced. While some said scenes from many of her movies might be responsible for her wanting to be single, others said it's a move to get sympathy from fans. The actress took to social network, Facebook, on July 29, 2013, to announce to her teeming fans that the court had finally granted her a divorce. "Hi fans. Thank you all for your love and support over the years. It's been an emotional journey and I want to announce to you guys that the court has granted me a divorce. I'm now officially divorced. Thanks," she posted. But in swift disgust, her fans seem not to be okay with the news as lashes of words started pouring in. While just few congratulated her and urged her to move on with her life, many didn't find the news funny, criticising her of going public with her divorce as if it was a good development. According to Tracy, he frowned at her not being able to show a difference from other celebrities who couldn't hold their marriages. He urged her to take her time to think instead of happily declaring that she has divorced. Prince Charming said: "What an announcement! Just more like a thanksgiving. Well, who knows, maybe it's better this way for her." Another fan by the name Flavia called Chika a "stupid woman" for being happy that she's again a single woman when many ladies are out in search of men to call their own. According to another fan, he said the actress is lucky her ex-husband, Tony, has been quiet about it unlike Funke Kindele's ex-husband who gave the actress a public disgrace. He advised her to move on with her life instead of washing her dirty linen in the public. "Chika we have heard you o! You are going around announcing your divorce as if it is a good thing. You are lucky that Tony is a good man and he is highly literate that he hid your secret. You know what you did now. Thank God you do not have an agbero husband like Funke Akindele's husband who disgraced her in public. Take a chill pill and stop bringing his name into the news. The guy has moved on, so move on with your life. Very soon you'll say you need your privacy. Learn to keep some things within the family," He said. Funke Akindele: For this sultry actress who has been in the movie industry since her teenage years, the news of her divorce was disheartening not only to family members but to her fans. In a statement she released confirming the divorce according to nigerianfilms.com, it read: "On behalf of our client, star actress, Funke Akindele, we want to formally inform you that after due consultation and consideration, she's now separated from Mr Kehinde Oloyede as his wife. She hereby urges her fans and all concerned to pray and wish her the best as she moves on in her career. Kindly note that this is the first and only official statement from Funke Akindele on this matter and she will be glad if her wish be respected. Thank you." So will this be the end for the actress or would she continue searching for the right man? Ini Edo: The media hype and jamboree of Ini Edo's marriage was awesome when she got married to her Europe-based husband. In an interview with the actress, she stated the distance between them was not a problem as they knew how to sort themselves. But little did they know that things were not right as the news broke of their divorce. According to an online source, Ini Edo was not happy and the reason was that it was alleged that pressure was being mounted on her handsome husband, Philip Ehigwina, by his family members to dump the charming actress. According to what tale bearers are saying, Ini Edo's in-laws are not happy that the glamorous actress hasn't given them a child after about four years of marriage. "These Edo people are just too funny. They have already told Philip to send away Ini Edo since she can't give them a child," said a source. Another said: "But come to think of it, why would Ini Edo's in-laws interfere in her marriage?" This was quickly answered by the first busy-body. "That's Edo culture for you. Their sons don't have much say in their marriages." By Leadership's Anthony Ada Abraham  |
| Former B2k member Raz B on life support after bottle attack in China Posted: 17 Aug 2013 07:02 AM PDT  Security moved in fast and both Raz and his attacker were taken to the police station, but after it was determined that Raz was not at fault he was released to the hospital. Raz required a 1-hour surgical procedure and 4 stitches to repair the wound to his mouth. His attacker was ordered to pay him $5,000 for medical expenses. The morning after the attack Raz B did not wake up. He's now on life support. Continue.... From TMZ R&B singer Raz-B is currently on life support in a hospital in China ... just one day after he was smashed in the face with a bottle at a nightclub, TMZ has learned. We spoke to Raz's publicist, Toy Jones, who tells us, "He is in a coma and needs as many prayers as possible." As we previously reported, the 28-year-old was performing at a club in China on Thursday and was smashed in the face with a glass bottle while trying to break up a fight that erupted in the crowd. Raz received medical attention hours after the incident --and underwent minor surgery to repair a gash in his lip. But the next day, sources close to Raz tell us he didn't wake up ... and Raz's backup dancer rushed him to a nearby hospital for treatment. We're told doctors tested for brain activity and determined the situation was dire. Sources say Raz is breathing from a ventilator ... and has been slipping in and out of consciousness.  |
| Singer Mo Cheddah And Her Nude Photo Posted: 17 Aug 2013 07:00 AM PDT  Below is what she said when asked about the nude photo scandal: Was it your 'thick skin' that made you to overcome the scandal of your alleged nude picture that went viral? I don't know. I don't remember anything about that. I am not going to defend myself. I don't always have to do that. People will always talk about you. They will always pick on meaningless things. As a human being, you have to move on. But really, were those pictures yours? I will not answer that question. Did that episode, whether true or false, have any effect on you and your career? At that point, I had grown a thick skin. I wasn't depressed. It is just like you waking up and somebody is telling you that you did what you know that you did. Such thing can't get to you. You don't have to defend yourself; you just have to move on. Nothing has ever come in between my music and I. Nothing. My school didn't even affect my music. I am where I am because it is where God wants me to be and it is where I chose to be. Life is all about knowing when to slow down and knowing when to move on. I started music so early and there was a time I was just going on shows, shows and shows. God blessed me so much and I achieved so much at an early age. I had to go into other things. I am an entrepreneur. I am a young lady growing into a young woman. I want to experience the world. That I have not released an album in a couple of years does not mean I am off the scene or that I am no longer relevant. I am an ambassador for brands and I get paid for that. Because I am not on TV doesn't mean I have been buried.  |
| Badagry mob victim Ifechukwudi Nwanipor laid to rest Posted: 17 Aug 2013 06:59 AM PDT   Policemen watched as both men – Nwanikpor and Kazeem Onayemi (26) were beaten and killed by the community members after being labelled armed robbers. Mourners and family members came out in their numbers at the Badagry cemetery but couldn't hold back their tears at the burial. Now the Badagry community that lynched him is offering his family N2.5 million compensation. Read more on Telegraphng.com  |
| This Fake Doctor Deceives Pregnant Woman In Lagos; Taking Delivery Of Babies Posted: 17 Aug 2013 06:56 AM PDT  "There was a delivery we started about 8 am but did not end until 4 pm. The woman lost a lot of blood. When the baby did not come out on time, we used hand to pull the baby out." The two suspects spoke with journalists while being paraded on Friday at the Lagos State Police Command Headquarters, Ikeja. Lagos Police spokesperson, Ngozi Braide, said Nwankwo and Onyema were arrested by officers of Area 'E' Police Command, FESTAC Town, after a pregnant woman, who had gone to the hospital, died during labour. 40-year-old Nwankwo claimed he was an auxiliary doctor in a hospital in Ondo State before he moved to Lagos, where he was employed by Onyema. But while being questioned by journalists, it turned out that he was only a non-medical employee in the unnamed hospital. Nwankwo said, "I worked in a hospital in Ondo State sometime ago. I finished from a secondary school before getting a job in Care Hospital, Iba. "I met Gabriel (Onyema) in the house where he was living in Iba and told him the house was good for a hospital. We then teamed up and entered into a partnership with another man, Dr. Abayomi. Gabriel later said I should start working in the hospital as a doctor as well. We undertook up to 90 deliveries." On his part, the second fake doctor, Onyema, said he lives mostly in Ghana "where I sell bond papers." Asked if the hospital was registered, he said, "Work is ongoing on the registration." He stated, "I don't really know all the details of what the doctors I employed there do. They are in the best position to tell you since I was always in Ghana." When journalists asked if he was aware his employees perform illegal procedures in the hospital, Onyema said, "Ask me a valid question." He refused to answer questions onwards.  |
| A message to all single ladies - from Charly Boy Posted: 17 Aug 2013 06:54 AM PDT   If you're a single lady...this message is for you from Mr Charles Oputa
You see since childhood, my Princess has been very independent, very focused and determined - no nonsense kind of 'chic', (can an apple fall too far from its tree). She is intelligent and extremely hardworking, I mean what more could a man ask for in a woman? Quickly, I was thinking of how to calm my ticked off Princess down. "Darling, you know daddy will always love you no matter what, most importantly you know damn too well that you are not under any pressure to get married. So be patient, concentrate on your carrier and yourself my darling, he will come when he comes, and if he doesn't come, have your baby, I wouldn't mind another grandchild." Did I really say that? Oh! Yes I did, and I meant that. Single ladies are on the rise these days, because for a long time coming, there has been an explosion of male joblessness in Nigeria and the world over. There has also been a decline in men's life prospects that have disrupted and distorted the dating or the "marriage market", in a way that narrows a marriage minded woman's options. Today all the Nigerian single "good" ladies who are desirous to settle down are at a cross road in their dating life, most of them are simply tired, a lot are frustrated and many are giving up. Their options are really limited; it is mostly between the millions of Gigolos or the deadbeat, some of who are pretending that they are waiting for Jesus before they get it together; those who don't have ambition burning in their soul. I can't believe that I told my daughter to go ahead and have a baby out of wedlock. Well, with the way things are playing out in our environment, it is time we embraced new ideas about dating and marriage. Society's highest institution called "Marriage" is fast becoming old fashioned and outdated. Look around and see the alarming rate of divorce matters all over the place, something is definitely wrong my people. At this rate, falling in love and getting married will be a question of choice rather than societal expectation or luck. Frankly speaking, women have climbed so high in their independence and career and are doing way better than the men. Men have been falling behind with amazing alacrity. Good single women are so disappointed and it's unimaginable, it's like going to a party that has been the talk of the town for long. You buy your new dress hoping to show off at the party, but by the time you land, they tell you that all the good people have left, and the ones left are really the servants, their friends or relatives who have come to scavenge on the left over food. Believe it or not, that's the situation today, no kidding. Since the days of my grandfather, marriage has been primarily an economic and political contract between 2 families, prized and policed by families, relatives and community. That's why in my village, they will tell you "no be only your wife/husband you they marryoooooo" Things have changed since then, most of our dates are from facebook, bb chat, online dating, the hocus-pocus church called Pentecostals, etc. There is no doubt in my mind that we are in the midst of an extraordinary change. The transformation of young outstanding women, considered marriage material, is momentous, immensely liberating and immensely scary for prospective suitors. All the old ways are breaking down, these days ladies want to be in-charge of their lives, you can't blame them. Forget about the days of being submissive, na for your pocket. Forget about marriage vows where it says about obeying your husbands, hummmm joor, they are not slaves, understanding works better. Do they need husbands to have babies these days? Please don't get this twisted, marriage is divine and sweet when you can not only find a soul mate, but someone who can inspire you, respect you, love you, adore your feminity and independence. They are hard to find oooooo. My daughter knows that finding a good man is like finding a needle in a haystack. None the less, should women feel psychologically defeated? Hell No! Most men who don't know what time it is are still locked down with that old macho bullshit, that it is a Man's world. Hummmmm for where, my people, women run things now, let's get used to it, abegi, so our days on earth will be longer joor. My princess, my baby, my joy, my little big girl knows that her character, her pedigree, her background, her ambition, her zeal and courage will most likely intimidate a lot of men out there, she realizes that this will further narrow her pool of prospects, just like she is also aware that with each passing year she is getting older and never younger but the options stay very limited. All I'm trying to say is this, I tip my hat for all the "good" single ladies out there, keep the fate, I admire your courage in not wanting to settle for any trash out there. If it doesn't fit, trash it, finding a life time partner is not 'moimoi'. The world is already too troubled for you to be in a relationship that you know will not make you happy. Women can see these things ahead you know, that's why they are a special breed of God's creation. I have discovered lately that men need women in their lives to keep them stable, but if push comes to a shove, women don't really need men, a case in point, 'The great Oprah'. Yes, good men are hard to find, ask Lady D. Ha!!  |
| A message to all single ladies - from Charly Boy Posted: 17 Aug 2013 06:54 AM PDT If you're a single lady...this message is for you from Mr Charles Oputa
You see since childhood, my Princess has been very independent, very focused and determined - no nonsense kind of 'chic', (can an apple fall too far from its tree). She is intelligent and extremely hardworking, I mean what more could a man ask for in a woman? Quickly, I was thinking of how to calm my ticked off Princess down. "Darling, you know daddy will always love you no matter what, most importantly you know damn too well that you are not under any pressure to get married. So be patient, concentrate on your carrier and yourself my darling, he will come when he comes, and if he doesn't come, have your baby, I wouldn't mind another grandchild." Did I really say that? Oh! Yes I did, and I meant that. Single ladies are on the rise these days, because for a long time coming, there has been an explosion of male joblessness in Nigeria and the world over. There has also been a decline in men's life prospects that have disrupted and distorted the dating or the "marriage market", in a way that narrows a marriage minded woman's options. Today all the Nigerian single "good" ladies who are desirous to settle down are at a cross road in their dating life, most of them are simply tired, a lot are frustrated and many are giving up. Their options are really limited; it is mostly between the millions of Gigolos or the deadbeat, some of who are pretending that they are waiting for Jesus before they get it together; those who don't have ambition burning in their soul. I can't believe that I told my daughter to go ahead and have a baby out of wedlock. Well, with the way things are playing out in our environment, it is time we embraced new ideas about dating and marriage. Society's highest institution called "Marriage" is fast becoming old fashioned and outdated. Look around and see the alarming rate of divorce matters all over the place, something is definitely wrong my people. At this rate, falling in love and getting married will be a question of choice rather than societal expectation or luck. Frankly speaking, women have climbed so high in their independence and career and are doing way better than the men. Men have been falling behind with amazing alacrity. Good single women are so disappointed and it's unimaginable, it's like going to a party that has been the talk of the town for long. You buy your new dress hoping to show off at the party, but by the time you land, they tell you that all the good people have left, and the ones left are really the servants, their friends or relatives who have come to scavenge on the left over food. Believe it or not, that's the situation today, no kidding. Since the days of my grandfather, marriage has been primarily an economic and political contract between 2 families, prized and policed by families, relatives and community. That's why in my village, they will tell you "no be only your wife/husband you they marryoooooo" Things have changed since then, most of our dates are from facebook, bb chat, online dating, the hocus-pocus church called Pentecostals, etc. There is no doubt in my mind that we are in the midst of an extraordinary change. The transformation of young outstanding women, considered marriage material, is momentous, immensely liberating and immensely scary for prospective suitors. All the old ways are breaking down, these days ladies want to be in-charge of their lives, you can't blame them. Forget about the days of being submissive, na for your pocket. Forget about marriage vows where it says about obeying your husbands, hummmm joor, they are not slaves, understanding works better. Do they need husbands to have babies these days? Please don't get this twisted, marriage is divine and sweet when you can not only find a soul mate, but someone who can inspire you, respect you, love you, adore your feminity and independence. They are hard to find oooooo. My daughter knows that finding a good man is like finding a needle in a haystack. None the less, should women feel psychologically defeated? Hell No! Most men who don't know what time it is are still locked down with that old macho bullshit, that it is a Man's world. Hummmmm for where, my people, women run things now, let's get used to it, abegi, so our days on earth will be longer joor. My princess, my baby, my joy, my little big girl knows that her character, her pedigree, her background, her ambition, her zeal and courage will most likely intimidate a lot of men out there, she realizes that this will further narrow her pool of prospects, just like she is also aware that with each passing year she is getting older and never younger but the options stay very limited. All I'm trying to say is this, I tip my hat for all the "good" single ladies out there, keep the fate, I admire your courage in not wanting to settle for any trash out there. If it doesn't fit, trash it, finding a life time partner is not 'moimoi'. The world is already too troubled for you to be in a relationship that you know will not make you happy. Women can see these things ahead you know, that's why they are a special breed of God's creation. I have discovered lately that men need women in their lives to keep them stable, but if push comes to a shove, women don't really need men, a case in point, 'The great Oprah'. Yes, good men are hard to find, ask Lady D. Ha!!  |
| How This Young Lady Dazzled President Jonathan With Power Posted: 17 Aug 2013 06:52 AM PDT  Jessica, who is a co-founder and Chief Executive Officer of Unchartedplay, was at the Presidential Villa in Abuja to present the ball which can generate three hours of light from 30 minutes of play. While congratulating her on her creativity and innovativeness, Jonathan said he is impressed that Matthews, who trained as a psychologist and economist, developed herself in the field of science. He described her feat as a proof of the quality of human resource present in Nigeria. The President said the invention was useful as a major tool that could be used to mobilise young Nigerians and encourage them to think more deeply. Speaking on her invention, Jessica Matthews said: "Sometimes power is lost and you say what can you do to solve this situation and I saw my cousins and everyone playing football, playing with everything not even with football alone. "I say this is amazing and they can rival Messi. If we can take this kinetic that is generated here and use it to address the issues that we really have; kinetic energy is used for windmill, why not the ball?" She said although the items were already on sale in New York, she had not started making them in Nigeria. She, however, said when they would be made available for sale in Nigeria, the cost would be equivalent to what people pay for a solar inverter. Minister of Trade and Investment, Olusegun Aganga, said FG is looking at the possibilities of manufacturing the items in Nigeria and see how to make them cheaper for Nigerians. He said, "Jessica is a Nigerian, she studied at Harvard University, she went to Business School and actually taught herself Electrical and Mechanical Engineering. So, she is an inspiration to every Nigerian especially our children in Nigerian universities. This is a product not only for Nigeria, but a product made in Nigeria by a Nigerian and for the world. "The second thing is that the product is actually versatile, it is not just about the electricity you see, you can use it to charge your mobile phones, for fans, so there are so many things for which it can be used."  |
| How Can A Lady Take This Photo With A Guy and Still Deny? Posted: 17 Aug 2013 06:48 AM PDT  When we say ladies should do only those things they can defend when the need arises, Olokunbolablessing.blogspot.Com do so because we know that a day of reckoning will always come, now or later. Controversial Nollywood actor, Benson Okonkwo, believed by many to be gay, sent out information that he is getting married to the lady whose boobs he is grabbing in the photo. Her name is Emelda Anthony. But Emelda has come out now, crying that she is not in any relationship with Benson and that he has not slept with her before. Unfortunately, her real boyfriend has seen the pictures and story online. But why did she take such personal photo with Benson? See what she said below: "Please that story is false. I know Benson must have fed it to you but it's not true. I'm not in any relationship with Benson. He is just using me to cover up his real lifestyle. I have known him since 2005 and those photos on your blog were taken in 2011 at a salon and we were just playing around, even the kiss is not real. Benson has been using me to cover up for years and it has to stop. I have a serious boyfriend and it was his friends that drew his attention to your blog. Now I am having issues with my man. I am not engaged to Benson or planning to marry him. He has never even asked me to marry him. His father and my father were close friends and that was how we met. We were supposed to date back when we were introduced but he never touched me and when I started seeing men in his house I understood and we have been friends ever since. This story is so painful to me. I lost my father on August 4th and I am still mourning him so to be reading this type of story online is making my situation worse. Please help me tell the world I am not getting married to Benson." So, do you believe that this lady, Emelda don't have anything with Benson?  |
| Married Woman Caught With Pastor In A Hotel In Lagos Posted: 17 Aug 2013 06:31 AM PDT  On Friday, a 48-yrear-old man, Gbenga Awoyode revealed details of how his 52-year-old wife, Raliat was caught in the act with a Pastor inside a hotel in Lagos. Mr. Awoyode, speaking before an Alagbado Grade A Customary Court, disclosed that his wife no longer have respect for him again, saying the night duties he does at Yaba College of Technology, Lagos provided his wife ample opportunity to engage in illicit sex with men in their neighborhood. The divorce-seeking husband said he is fed up with the 15year old marriage because of the pains, shame and insult he has suffered in the union. He lamented that his neighbour's wife once accused his wife in the full glare of other neighbours to leave her husband alone. He said the marriage produced three children, adding that Raliat has turned life into a nightmare for him and his two children from his first marriage, forcing the maltreated children to run away from home. Apart from utter disregard for his family members, Awoyode claimed that his wife beats other relatives who dare to challenge her actions. He also said his wife has the habit of seizing his documents, identification card and driver's licence, adding that she destroys his belongings whenever they quarrel. Awoyode prayed the court to grant him outright divorce, saying he did not pay any dowry on his wife. Dispelling the claims of her husband, Raliat said he cooked up the allegations to give her a bad name in order to secure a divorce. She claimed that she is not a hostile person as claimed by her husband, pointing out that her husband's callous attitude was the major problem in their marriage. According to Raliat, her husband only gives her N200 as feeding allowance for nine people. She also alleged that he beats her up when she makes any comment on the meagre sum of money. Raliat, who also accused her husband of dating another woman, appealed to the court not to dissolve the marriage as she still loves her husband. Following the woman's claim that she still love her husband, the court president, P.A. Williams, adjourned the case till Monday, September 9, 2013 for further hearing.  |
| These Days Men Get Sex Everywhere More Than In Marriage Posted: 17 Aug 2013 06:22 AM PDT  Another woman said, "It's strange, but whenever we do make love, we always look at each other afterward and say, 'Hey, that was terrific. Why don't we do this more often? Why don't we'?" Many married couples say that once things get rolling in sexually, they have no trouble responding to a sexual trip and escapade. But a couple's inability to get started sexually is the greatest single cause of sexual infrequency and sexless marriage. As much as many couples desire s*x to be a "sudden inspiration," impressive passionate, sex mostly happens in marriage when couples make initiating s*x a conscious decision. Many couples have realised that while waiting endlessly for the time of feeling sexy, they usually are not feeling all that sexy until when they decide to have sex. But "getting started" is only half the problem in most marriages. There's also the question of who starts the initiation. Let's look at the case of Bidemi and Lucky. During the first seven years of Bidemi and Lucky's marriage, Lucky had always initiated sex and five out of ten times, Bidemi had willingly acceded. But one evening, after a party, Bidemi reached under the bedcovers and began to caress her husband. "He just pushed my hand away," Bidemi recalled with obvious pain and resentment. "He told me I was drunk and he did not want to make love when I was like that. That my normal self would refuse s*x and when he insists he wants it, I will always accuse him of raping me under the marriage law." Lucky cut in. "I told you that I simply wasn't in the mood, I don't want your 'wahala' and I don't want to pretend about it after all, you always refuse and say you don't want to pretend about it. Why is my refusal painful now? This is what I go through day in day out since we have been married." This escalated into cold war. Bidemi was angry, and she began to pay Lucky back with his own coin. The next time he initiated s*x, she begged off, saying that she was not in the mood. She refused again the next time, and the next. Lucky, humiliated, stopped initiating s*x altogether. They had not made love in four years. Bidemi and Lucky are on a very dangerous game of sexual relationship, which has lasted for years, one partner does not want s*x because the other does; refusing sex becomes a power play: "If you can say no, so can I." This is typical of many marriages. Many spouses never initiate s*x anymore because they regard one or two refusals as total rejection and denial, but sometimes, our partners may not be in the mood for s*x, so sexual refusal should not be seen as rejection. The rejecting partner should always provide a 'substitute other day'. If you have to refuse your partner, let there be a sincere tenable reason genuinely accepted by the person refused and a promise for a make up. Lucky's refusal of Bidemi's advance, however, involved more than a passing mood; it is rooted deeply in cumulative rejections that has transcended into frustration and resentment. When he pushed his wife's hand away, he was saying, loud and clear I have been discouraged and disconnected. While Bidemi has only responded sometimes to her husband's advance only when she wanted, she is now so confused how to rectify things. She realised that there had been a serious sexual imbalance in her 7-year- old marriage and it wasn't fair because her husband now plays 'the external league'. I tried to show Bidemi that all along, she had been only a willing accomplice who has ignorantly taken her husband for granted and she has always had the power to refuse even when the man begs on his kneel. But once she too starts initiating s*x, he also refuses. Because Lucky and Bidemi both wanted their marriage to work, I urged them to sincerely consider themselves and consciously give s*x another chance even when either of them is not in the mood, or either of them has been unfaithful. I knew that their accumulated anger was preventing them both from turning themselves on. I asked them to try the talking-touching exercise. Talking-touching is important; it connects partners and enables them to experience the long lost pleasure. Let your bodies make friends first. You can talk about the good old days. Once we allow ourselves to feel our partner's heart-caressing speech and touching, it is difficult to stay adamant and angry. When we relax under a loving caress, frequencies of s*x are rebirthed. By Funmi Akingbade  |
| See The Bad Habits That Causes Heart Problem Posted: 16 Aug 2013 01:44 PM PDT  Below are the core 7 bad habits that destroy people's heart: 1. Increased Alcohol Consumption Having a drink every once in a while will not have a major impact on your heart (especially if you consume wine, which has a series of health benefits), but if you consume alcohol regularly then you heart will suffer in the long run. In addition to the devastating effects alcohol is known to have on your liver, it can also harm your bones, affect your memory and it considerably increases the risk of heart disease along with the risk of hypertension. Heart disease is one of the leading causes of death in the US, and by quitting alcohol you can reduce the risk by up to 50% or even more. Remember that it is not the alcohol consumption itself that affects your heart, it is the abuse of alcohol that affects it in the long term. 2. Eating Too Much Salt Food is tasteless without a pinch of salt, and that is a known fact. However, many of us overuse this ingredient, and that puts us at risk for high blood pressure. High blood pressure is a risk factor for heart attack and stroke, therefore you might want to think twice before adding extra salt to your meals! 3. Lack Of Exercise The lack of exercise is another underlying cause of heart disease, not to mention that people who do not do regular physical exercises are more prone to develop type 2 diabetes as well. The less we exercise, the more likely we are to gain weight, and extra pounds are known to destroy the heart, slowly but surely. Besides the fact that many people get stuck in front of the TV for hours, they also have the bad habit of continuously eating snacks of all kinds. This is a deadly combination that can trigger a series of dangerous illnesses. Exercising, on the other hand, can elevate the mood, ensure the proper functioning of your heart and brain, improve the blood flow and cell oxygenation and so on. 4. Leaving Your Depression And Anxiety Untreated Anxiety, depression and stress can have a tremendous impact on your overall health, not to mention that they also weaken your heart. However, if these issues are addressed in real time, their effects can be minimized – on the other hand, if left untreated they lower your immunity and energy levels, they decrease your appetite and they also have an impact on your nervous system. Negative emotions affect your heart health and that is not a secret! 5. Comfort Eating It often happens that we eat even when we are not hungry, and the main problem is that we eat unhealthy foods: sugary products, high-fat products and foods rich in salt are some of our most common choices in terms of food. In addition to making us fat, comfort eating is a major risk for heart disease. As a matter of fact, approximately three out of four men in the US are overweight while two women out of three have several extra pounds. If you know to be overweight, the answer is very simple: avoid over-sizing your food portions, lower your sugar intake, increase your water intake and avoid fast food and fried foods. 6. Smoking Smoking is a silent killer, but even if we are all well-aware of the side effects of tobacco cigarettes, there still are tens of millions of smokers worldwide. As statistics reveal, smoking is responsible for approximately 30% of the deaths related to heart disease – not to mention that it is also a high risk factor for certain types of cancer like mouth, throat or lung cancer. 7. Lack Of Sleep Lack of sleep can lead to what is known as sleep deprivation. In turn, sleep deprivation leads to hormonal imbalances, which not only make you eat more but also have an impact on your heart. The stress hormone levels are also increased by the lack of sleep, and the side effects of stress have been detailed above. For a healthy heart, adults should get around 7-8 hours of sleep per night.  |
| Uche Jombo and Desmond Elliot way back ...and now! Posted: 16 Aug 2013 01:41 PM PDT    |
| Moment officers swooped in to stop sham marriage between Nigerian student and Hungarian woman Posted: 16 Aug 2013 01:40 PM PDT   This is the dramatic moment home office investigators put a stop to a sham marriage just minutes before the bride and groom exchanged their vows.Nigerian Chinedu Amadi arrived at Leicester Registry Office to marry a complete stranger - Hungarian national Szilvia Basco-Porkolab, who donned a traditional white wedding gown for the occasion. But unbeknown to them Home Office investigators who were tipped off by a suspicious registrar and lay in wait in a side room for the pair to arrive. These pictures show the moment the 'couple' were told they had been caught and were arrested. Shit mehn! Lol. Continue...  Basco-Porkolab, 38, living in Leicester, admitted two counts of conspiracy to breach immigration laws relating to sham marriages, and was jailed for 34 months. Amadi, 27, of Livingstone Road, Gillingham, admitted a similar count and was jailed for 20 months. Egbe, 34, of Narborough Road, Leicester, was convicted of one offence of conspiracy, and jailed for 30 months. A fourth person, Rubin Durgos 39, admitted conspiracy, in the intended sham marriage of Amadi. She was to be the bride, before Basco-Porkolab stepped in at the last minute. Durgos, a Hungarian, of Forest Road, Coalville, Leicestershire, was jailed for 20 months. Sentencing at Leicester Crown Court, Judge Philip Head said: 'What you did in your own ways was to cheat all those who loyally and honestly abide by the system.' Andy Radcliffe, a Home Office inspector, said after the case: 'These were brazen attempts to trample over both the immigration laws and the institution of marriage   'The message is clear - immigration abuse will not be tolerated and we will take the strongest possible action against those involved. 'We work closely with registrars across the region and our dedicated crime teams will continue to make life as tough as possible for those who seek to abuse the immigration system.' Neil Bannister, prosecuting, told the court: 'The offences came to light with the intended marriage, initially, between Durgos and Amadi. 'Both attended Leicester Registry Office to give their notice of intention to marry, on October 21. They met the deputy superintendent registrar for Leicester, Debra Webster. 'Mrs Webster recognised Durgos as someone she knew as Rita Durgos, a Hungarian who had acted as an interpreter for more than one marriage. 'These marriages involved Hungarians and nationals from countries outside the European Economic Area. 'Mrs Webster became suspicious as to whether Durgos and Amadi were going to enter a genuine marriage. 'Durgos struggled to pronounce the first name of Amadi and he struggled to remember his address. 'Mrs Webster also thought the couple were being excessively affectionate and gained the impression they were trying too hard to demonstrate they were a couple. 'Arrangements were made for a marriage on January 19. 'On that date, a woman claiming to be Rubin Durgos turned up but Mrs Webster did not recognise her. It is not known who that woman was. 'Amadi was an hour late and missed the ceremony, so a further date was arranged for 2pm on February 14.' By then Mrs Webster had alerted the authorities. Mr Bannister added: 'Meanwhile, information came to light Durgos had been married to a Godwin Okechuku, a Nigerian, on July 4, 2008, at Christ the King Church, Beaumont Leys, Leicester.' On February 14, Mrs Webster noted the bride was different from Durgos and the woman who attended on January 19. When arrested in a wedding dress, she initially told officers she was attending as a witness. In mitigation, the court heard Egbe and Amadi had entered the UK legitimately on student visas, which had not expired. Egbe enrolled at Leicester Business Academy, which then closed and he was concerned his visa would be revoked. He was 'desperate' to stay in the country, the court heard. All the defendants are likely to be deported after their sentences. Culled from Daily Mail UK  |
| Champions league winning coach Roberto Di Matteo is in Nigeria Posted: 16 Aug 2013 01:38 PM PDT  He will also be announcing the launch of the epic football show Guinness Raise Your Game - a weekly show that will bring you all the latest football news, amazing interviews with world-class footballers, epic live music performances and exclusive on-the-sofa chats! Sign up for free at m.guinnessvip.com and own your own team and be the first to know Roberto's activities. Also tune in to super sports to hear Roberto's analysis on matches to be played on Saturday August 17th, 2013. All these brought to you by Guinness. As the new English premier league begins be sure to grab a bottle of Guinness and drink responsibly. Guinness is sold strictly to +18.  |
| Photos: Genevieve Nnaji Looks Stunning In Native Posted: 16 Aug 2013 01:34 PM PDT |
| Photos: Barbs & Zainab Sheriff Play Golf In Bikinis Posted: 16 Aug 2013 01:33 PM PDT |
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| Tiwa Savage Catches Marriage Fever, Tells Her Fiancé Teeblliz It's Time They Get Married Posted: 16 Aug 2013 12:33 PM PDT |
| See Cristiano Ronaldo’s Incredible Car Collection (Photo) Posted: 16 Aug 2013 12:30 PM PDT  It is an intelligent and well equipped vehicle with a 6.0 litre twin-turbocharged W12 engine, which accelerates the car from 0 to 100 kilometres per hour (0 to 62.1 mph) in 4.8 seconds, and go on to reach a top speed of 318 kilometres per hour (197.6 mph). 2. Ferrari 599 GTB Fiorano  Another gem from the stables of the iconic Italian car makers, Ferrari 599 GTB Fiorano is a fierce car which has the distinction of being the most powerful series production Ferrari road car of its time. 3. Audi R8  The R8 is made distinct by its Germanic exterior styling, cabin, smaller V8 engine, and magnetic dampers. Cristiano has a weak spot for such vehicles and that's the reason he has been seen frequently in this sedan of his. 4. Audi Q7  Audi Q7 is certainly not the most luxurious cars of Cristiano, but nevertheless he loves his ride like anything. 5. Audi RS6  Audi RS6 evokes memories of Audi's renowned traditions and experience, and at the same time, the name underlines how latest technology can be blended with the human's sophisticated sense of styling to have a car that differs from every other model in the market. Cristiano is undoubtedly one of the few persons who can appreciate such a beauty in its complete glory. 6. Ferrari F430  The Ferrari F430 Spider made its world premiere at the Geneva motor show. The car was designed by Pininfarina who used aerodynamic simulation programs which the F1 cars used. It has some super luxury features that includes, the roof panel automatically folds away inside a space above the engine bay. 7. Maserati GranCabrio  Crafted with hands of perfection and designed using imagination of the highest levels, a Maserati is the ultimate luxury to have amongst all the vehicles. No surprise it is one of the favourite cars of Cristiano Ronaldo. 8. Porsche Cayenne Turbo  This five seater luxury crossover is a perfect combination of maximum raw power of 368 kW (500 hp) at 6,000 rpm with elegant style. However its enormous power has been well supplemented by accurate control features which make it a gem of a car. 9. Mercedes-Benz C220 CDI  Mercedes Benz has always surprised and marvelled the world with its amazing finesse and immaculate design. Mercedes-Benz C220 is not an exception. 10. Bugatti Veyron  For those who want to experience the highest level of thrill that raw speed provides, Buggati Veyron is the perfect destination. Acclaimed as the fastest street legal car in the world, Veyron isn't for the faint hearted and Cristiano is certainly not one of them. 11. Aston Martin DB9  Aston Martin DB9 is a quintessential car perfect for anyone who wants to have a taste of sporting thrill with classic luxury. 12. Rolls Royce Phantom Drophead Coupe  Its most luxurious amenities include a navigation system with voice recognition, power sunroof, upgraded leather upholstery, rear-view camera, rear-seat DVD entertainment system, 26-speaker premium sound system, 8-disc CD changer, 18-way power front seats, 16-way power rear seats, heated and cooled cup holders, rear-seat tables, outside-temperature indicator, universal garage door opener, power tilt/telescopic heated wood and leather-wrapped steering wheel with radio, climate, and navigation controls, power open/close trunk lid, power closing doors, wireless headphones, iPod adapter, refrigerator, and air conditioning with 5-zone climate controls. 13. Ferrari 599 GTO  Cristiano Ronaldo has the very powerful Ferrari 599 GTO as a part of his magnificent car collection. 14. Koenigsegg CCX  Rumours are spreading that the famous football star has put down cash for his new $500,000 car. Being one of the fastest cars in the world, the Koenigsegg CCX, it hits a top speed of around 250 mph. 15. Lamborghini Aventador  With his plush Lamborghini Aventador, the Real Madrid star is as swift as he is on the field. The celebrity bought the pricey vehicle as a birthday present for himself for an estimated $285,081.25. Ronaldo ordered the vehicle in February 2012 in an on trend matte black finish and since then; the soccer player is often seen driving his plush car all over the Madrid streets. Equipped with a powerful engine delivering 700hp and with a maximum speed of 350km/hr, the agile Aventador attains an acceleration of 0-100 km/hr in mere 2.9 sec.  |
| Photo : Woman Gives Birth To Tortoise After Having A 10Months Pregnancy In Lagos Posted: 16 Aug 2013 12:24 PM PDT  A tradomedical practitioner in Lagos has claimed that a 20-yearold woman delivered a tortoise and a baby girl in his clinic. The woman, Rasheedat Raimi, said she had carried the pregnancy for 10 months before she eventually delivered the baby girl and the tortoise at a trado-medical clinic on Mutairu Street, Off Ijegun Road, outskirts of Lagos. She was in pains as she talked to P.M.NEWS about the strange delivery. "I came to Yakafi for prayers because of theterrible pains I was having in my stomach. Immediately I got here, prayers were offered and immediately there was a burst ofwater and blood under me. Continue... The tortoise came out with theplacenta and the baby came out later. I couldn't believe my eyes, but I was very weak. I was happy the pain left me. I felt relieved after the delivery. Ithank God," she told P.M.NEWS slowly. On whether she attended ante-natal clinic before the delivery, the young woman said: "I carried the pregnancy for 10 months. I did scans several timesand nobody told me that I was carrying tortoisein my womb. What they alwaystold me was that I am alright and would deliver at the right time," she added. "This is amazing, but true. She did not register with my clinic for ante-natal. When she came here with her people, she was in pains, we didn't know she will deliver here. She only camehere for Tahajjud prayers (night vigil). We were praying when suddenly she started wriggling. She was in pains. "I touched her stomach and observed something strangemoving inside her. It was a strange thing. I thought it wasa lizard but it turned out to be a tortoise. The tortoise tore the placenta into pieces and came out. The baby came out afterwards. "She fainted after the delivery and we had to reviveher with prayers. This is what God can do. She had several scans but nobody told her that she was carrying a tortoise in her womb. God is great," he declared. Ladies and Gents, Our technology can not see evil spiritual matters(works). Only God can deliver you when on this position. So, stop relying on technology but God. I hope this story has convinced you. Itis well.  |
| See Photos from Popular actress Ayo Adesanya’s surprise private birthday bash Posted: 16 Aug 2013 12:20 PM PDT |
| Photos : Beyonce Shows Off A Blonde Bob At Lunch With Blue Ivy & Hubby Jay-Z Posted: 16 Aug 2013 12:16 PM PDT  Hot mama! Beyonce Knowles is spending her Mrs. Carter Show world tour break chillin' out with her family. And trying out new hairstyles. The short shorts wearing mom of Blue Ivy was sporting a new blonde bob in Miami Thursday afternoon. The 31-year-old entertainer chopped off her hair last week and debuted a pixie cut on her Instagram page, but now it looks like she has added some extensions to make a blonde bob. Beyonce and her hubby Jay-Z and their baby girl Blue Ivy was spotted in Miami Beach showing off the "Grown Woman" chick's new look.        |
| Why I Donated My kidney To My Brother - Comedian De-Don Posted: 16 Aug 2013 12:10 PM PDT  Popular comedian and OAP Iruvwe Okeremute aka De-Don donated his kidney to his ailing elder brother, Morris Okeremute, who urgently needed a transplant to survive. In a recent interview, he explains his reason for doing it. "My brother started having this kidney problem in 2009. My elder sister donated her kidney to him at the time but unfortunately in January 2013 the kidney failed because he didn't take his drugs for some weeks because the drugs he ordered from India arrived late. "We did not know it was failing, we thought he just had complications but when he went for medical check up in January, they informed him that the kidney had failed and he had to do another transplant. The money was not complete and I had to run around to get cash and a donor, which we finally got but after running tests, giving him money, securing visa and ticket for him, he ran away three days before he was due to travel. "We were now left with the option of trying to see if I could donate. We ran a test, they gave me some drugs and I was told that if I took them religiously I would be fit enough to donate in a short while. I went there in May, came back to Nigeria, stayed till June and travelled to India for the transplant in July. They ran the test and discovered that I was fit. "It was natural that I donate to him. It wasn't difficult making up my mind because I needed to save his life. I equally had a proper awareness about kidney donation and also the fact that nothing happened to my sister who had donated before. She even had another baby boy after the donation," he said. Source: Punch Nigeria  |
| Posted: 16 Aug 2013 12:06 PM PDT  Babatunde Olusegun a.k.a mode 9 went all emotional on hotfm's breakfast radio show with TuTu Adeoba and Cheezy Charles on his type of non-commercial rap, he re-affirms that he can never change his type of rap to suit an audience and decries neglect on his type of rap' 'I put out a whole album nobody cared' 'A whole 20 track album 'alphabetical order' nobody gave a f**k', nobody cares. You see how the industry is' how do you expect me to feel? 'Nigerians don't like hip hop they only follow the hype, they don't even know what it is' continue... I only cater for my real fans; I don't really care about the fair weather, band wagon jumpers 'I cater for my fans and they are feeling it' i have put up too much effort in promotion of my materials' "It's just some certain people in their minds feeling that I'm not doing well' I have decided I am going to attack anybody who calls me up and asks 'where have you been?' I have attacked everyone that has done that, I am not afraid of anybody. It's just the way they think. If your music is not playing in clubs then you are not putting out the best. My music is not club music; I didn't put out a club album. Real fans of Mode 9 know where it's happening and know how to get it. They've seen it on TV and they loved it. So I think I'm doing a great job. Imagine you doing all this and someone walking up to you and asking, common where've you been? Imagine how bad you'll feel after spending millions of naira to promote yourself from your own pocket. He also cleared the air about the purported biff with Vector concerning controversial single 'the truth' released in July allegedly by Vector which was widely reported as a diss track targeting mode 9. Mode said "I don't have any biff with Vector. Vector was even on my album. The night that song was released, Vector called me and said someone was trying to sabotage him. He said the song was recorded in 2009 but whoever pushed it out in July had some part doctored. Since Vector called me before the song started making the waves I believed him. I even tweeted that I'm cool with Vector. We both tweeted that we are cool with each other. But people still went on to blow the story; begging for a war; I'm sorry but we won't be given anybody a war"  |
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