Friday, 6 December 2013

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I dont know the problems of Northerners?

Posted: 06 Dec 2013 08:54 AM PST

Vice President -North. **Senate President -North. **Speaker House of Reps - North. **PDP National Chairman - North. **Head of Service - North.**INEC Chairman - North.**Inspector General of Police - North.**CBN Governor - North.**Chief Justice of federation - North.**President Court of Appeal - North.**EFCC Chairman - North.**President Federal high court - North.**National Security Adviser - North.**Chief of Defense Staff -
North.**Comptroller, Customs Service - North.**Comptroller Prison Services - North.**Richest man in Africa - North.**85% of Petroleum Marketers in Nigeria - Northerners. **80% of Oil Block Owners in Nigeria - Northerners. **99% of beggars in Nigeria - Northerners **Boko Haram - North. ASUU chairman-North Etc....
Yet, the Poorest states in Nigeria and Educationally backward areas in Nigeria are in the North. Now ask yourself, what is the problem of the Northerners? 

The 6 Deadly Sins Of Dating

Posted: 06 Dec 2013 08:40 AM PST

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Don't say that you weren't warned! Nothing can kill a budding relationship faster than one of the seven dating mistakes below.

1. Rushing into s*x
If you have s*x before a man has had a chance to get to know you, then you risk him placing you in the "fling" category and losing interest. A man has to invest and appreciate your other qualities beyond the physical for him to want to make you his girlfriend. So don't be afraid to take your time and make him wait.
2. Opening up too fast
Likewise, it isn't smart to rush in and tell him all of your sad childhood stories. Although it's natural to want to speed up the bonding process, you have to pace the amount of information you share. You don't want to scare him off with TMI or convince him that you're a high-drama mamma.
3. Calling/texting/emailing too much
While it's true that we live in an age of over-sharing, you'll just have to trust us on this one and play it cool. Men typically enjoy playing the role of the chaser, not the chasee, so constantly calling them can have the reverse effect of making them less interested, not more. So put down that phone, slowly back away from the computer, and let him sweat it out for a change.
4. Spying on him
It may be tempting to take a quick peak at his Blackberry, but there's no faster way to inflame trust issues than to snoop.
5. Expecting him to change
People do not change very much as they get older, especially men. So if there are numerous things about him that you can't stand, then it might be wiser to just change to a different man.
6. Neglecting yourself
While it's important to nurture a budding relationship, sacrificing all of your energy and time to it and ignoring your own needs is a huge mistake. Whether you're in a relationship or not, you should always love and take care of yourself first.

Dear OBB readers: My new boss is my wife's ex

Posted: 06 Dec 2013 08:26 AM PST

From a male OBB reader
I just found out that my new boss is the man my wife dumped a few years ago to marry me. The man was planning to marry her and saw her through her university days financially and also supported her family. We met during our NYSC, fell in love and got married shortly after. My woman handled the discharging of her ex codedly. Now 4 years into our marriage, there's a big issue. I just got this really good job and my direct boss happens to be the man my wife dumped for me.
He knows who I am because he confronted me back when my wife left him for me, but since I started this job, he hasn't said anything to me but I noticed he excludes me from most of the activities that concern staff and I suspect he's trying to sabotage me. He hasn't done anything yet, I'm just worried that he has bad plans for me. Should I quit or should I wait to see what he's up to? I don't look forward to going to work at all.
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