Tuesday, 26 November 2013

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Check-Out Denrele’s Outfit To Tiwa Savage Traditional Marriage.

Posted: 26 Nov 2013 10:41 AM PST

This Denrele's Outfit to Tiwa Savage's traditional marriage is ehmmm…..weird? 
Ok! Seriously, Take a look at his shoes.
Uhmmm who is his girlfriend anyway? 
I'm not thinking anything oh…just asking o. lol

38-Yr-old Woman Dupe Nigerian Striker, Peter Odemwingie Osaze Of N18Million!

Posted: 26 Nov 2013 10:38 AM PST

First It was John Mikel Obi...Now Its Osaze..Whats Really Happening to Our guys??
According To Reports From Punch
A British woman has appeared in court charged with conning thousands of pounds from Premiership footballers while working as their "lifestyle coach".
Claire Duke, 38, is accused of defrauding high-profile clients – including Cardiff City FC striker Peter Odemwingie – out of more than £70,000 over a one year period.
It is alleged Duke received money for holidays and flights from clients but kept the money for herself.
She appeared at Cannock Magistrates' Court in Staffordshire last Wednesday charged with five counts of fraud and one of theft.
Between September 1 last year and July 10 of this year she is accused of making a total of £71,106.83 fraudulently.
Included in the charges is that while Duke was the lifestyle consultant of 32-year-old Odemwingie, she allegedly stole £15,437.67 by using his debit card.
Dressed smartly in a grey dress and black blazer, Duke spoke only to confirm her name and age in court.

Adaobi Obih's suspected killer Ryan Klug caught in Texas

Posted: 26 Nov 2013 10:32 AM PST

The prime suspect in the murder of 26 year old Nigerian, Adaobi. M. Obih, has been apprehended in Texas. Ryan Allen Klug was taken into custody by U.S. Marshals near Galveston, Texas on Saturday Nov. 23rd, four days after his roommate Adaobi was found dead in the flat they shared in Indiana. 

A full time test engineer at Cummins Inc., Adaobi only began to pursue her PHD before she was murdered. Family sources said she leased the apartment on her own and Klug was her tenant who paid rent to her. They also said Ada interviewed a large number of people before deciding to lease a room to Klug. Only for him to end up killing her.

Ada's employees were alerted after she missed two days of work. They went to her flat to see what was going on with her only to find her lifeless body in her apartment. Ada had been stabbed multiple times and her throat cut.

Oh no! Actress Nia Long and her Nigerian beau Ime Udoka break up

Posted: 26 Nov 2013 10:31 AM PST

If new reports are to be believed, then actress Nia Long and her Nigerian baby daddy, professional basketball player, Ime Udoka, have ended their relationship. 

According to Terez OwensIme and Nia, who have a two year old son together, quietly separated a while ago and Ime has already moved on with someone else. Ime is supposedly dating his long time friend, Alicia Deforest.

Nia also has an 11-year-old son with ex boyfriend Massai Z Dorsey. 

Monalisa Rocks Jewel By Lisa At Launch Of “Monalisa” Magazine + Faces At The Event!

Posted: 26 Nov 2013 10:09 AM PST

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Monalisa Chinda is going the Oprah on!! Just like the billionaire media maven who has her own Oprah magazine, Nollywood actress Monalisa has debuted her own "Monalisa" magazine. She launched the new "luxury" publication at the Intercontinental Hotel on Friday 22 November amidst pomp & pageantry.
Monalisa unveiled the first cover in a Jewel by Lisa dress which she teamed with gold strappy sandals.
Check out the cover and pictures from the red carpet after the jump

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Sharon Ojong
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Florence Ita Giwa
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Monalisa Chinda
Julius Agwu
Julius Agwu

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Azuka AGUJIUBA
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Jomoke Lorenore (1)
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Naomi Moira Iwugo (1)
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Oluwo Teni (1)
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Owolabi Kemi (1)
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Paula Rumm (1)
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Adetoke Oluwo (2)
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Chico Ejiro (1)
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Ali Baba
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Speech time…
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Betty Irabor, publisher Genevieve Magazine
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Ezinne Chinkata & Guest
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Segun Arinze (right)
Great effort but the cover could be better. #MyOpinion

See Tonto Dikeh’s Dad Posing With a Diamond Plated iPhone

Posted: 26 Nov 2013 09:34 AM PST

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For years, Tonto Dikeh was known to have lost her mother when she was a toddler and her father  took care of her. She only decided to release his picture a few months ago, and now feels comfortable to share more about the details of what they have together:

"He is my sugar daddy. I rub his belly and the pounds fall out. My old soldier, my love."Aww as she said she is her dad's favorite child .The joy of every dad is to watch his child succeed..Tonto Dikeh dad

BREAKING: G-7 Governors, Senators & Reps Merge With APC

Posted: 26 Nov 2013 09:16 AM PST

The deal is done. The G7 governors, 40+ Senators and 200+ House of Reps members who were part of the new PDP have agreed and have finally merged with the leading opposition party, APC, with immediate effect. Consequently, the APC now has 18 governors, while the PDP has 16.

Already, there is going to be a major upset in the National Assembly, as the APC that now has the majority in the legislature is ready to take its rightful position from the PDP. There will a lot of power politics...

The leadership of the House of Reps will be the first to join the APC, a top source told OluFamous.Com with an assurance that politics in Nigeria has changed for good with this move by the G7 governors.

#KeepYourFingersCrossed

Woman kept 140 SNAKES in sweet tubs and plastic bins stacked from floor to ceiling of her semi-detached house

Posted: 26 Nov 2013 07:46 AM PST

A woman who kept 140 snakes in sweet jars and plastic bins at her home has pleaded guilty to animal welfare charges. 
Pauline Wallace, 64, kept the reptiles in an upstairs bedroom, living room and garage at her home in York. 
York Magsitrates' Court heard how 20 dead snakes and a dead cat were also found in a freezer at the semi-detached house the woman shares with her elderly mother. 
Pauline Wallace pleaded guilty to animal welfare charges after RSPCA inspectors discovered 140 snakes at her home in York
Pauline Wallace kept over 100 live snakes in plastic containers stacked from floor to ceiling in her home
Pauline Wallace pleaded guilty to animal welfare charges after RSPCA inspectors discovered 140 snakes at her home in York
Wallace was found guilty of failing to ensure the snakes' welfare by keeping them in jars and boxes at her semi-detached house
RSPCA inspectors visited the property in July after receiving a call expressing concern for the animals' welfare. 
Wallace kept the snakes in plastic sweet jars, bins and vivariums that were stacked from floor to ceiling though she couldn't say exactly how many pets she had. 
 
    She also pleaded guilty to two charges of animal cruelty in relation to a border collie. 
    RSPCA prosecutor Phil Brown told the court the defendant was prepared to plead guilty to a number of the charges she faced. 
    Pauline Wallace admitted failing to provide a proper environment for the snakes and failing to protect them from pain, suffering or disease at York Magistrates' Court
    JPs ruled the 64-year-old also failed to provide the appropriate environment for the snakes to exhibit 'normal' behavior
    The snakes were discovered alongside other animals, dead and alive, at the semi-detached property Wallace shares with her elderly mother
    The RSPCA visited the house the woman shares with her elderly mother after receiving a tip-off expressing concern for the animals' welfare
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    The court heard how Pauline Wallace (pictured leaving court today) is on an 18-month waiting list to receive treatment for unspecified health problems
    The court heard how Pauline Wallace (pictured leaving court today) is on an 18-month waiting list to receive treatment for unspecified health problems. She will be sentenced in January 

    She admitted seven charges of failing to ensure the needs of the animals were met between August and September. 
    The court heard how Pauline Wallace (left) was on an 18-month waiting list to seek medical treatment. RSPCA inspectors visited her home in York (right) after receiving a tip-off
    Twenty dead snakes and a dead cat were also found at the woman's home in York (pictured)
    The defendant also pleaded guilty to failing to provide the snakes a proper environment and failing to protect them from pain, injury, suffering or disease.
    Among the reptiles found at the house was a Blood Python, a Salmon Hypo Boa and  Cinder boa. 
    Wallace previously pleaded guilty to a charge of causing unnecessary suffering to an animal, admitting that she failed to provide veterinary care to the border collie that suffers ecto-parasitism.
    Mr Brown told magistrates that the prosecution accepted her guilty pleas and would be offering no other evidence to ten other animal cruelty charges she faced.
    The court heard how Wallace was on an 18-month waiting list to see a medical specialist for unspecified health problems. 
    Her lawyer, David Ward, said the defendant also had 'some issues with the family' and asked for sufficient time to prepare a medical report. 
    Chairman of the bench, Malcolm Smith told Wallace who was released on bail: 'You have pleaded guilty on the first day of your trial. 
    'Some credit will be due in terms of any sentence although clearly not full credit.' 
    Sentencing was adjourned until January 16.


    MoneySpeaking! Check-Out How Tonto Dikeh’s Boyfriend Lives Lavishly!

    Posted: 26 Nov 2013 07:34 AM PST

    Michael Awujola a.k.a Malivelihood is Tonto Dikeh's current boyfriend and the guy behind most of the gold plated accessories you see with celebrities. Check out how Malivelihood is living the big life all in pictures. Enjoy!










    "We Have Returned the N111 Billion Abacha Stole to Nigerian government" – Switzerland..

    Posted: 26 Nov 2013 07:31 AM PST




    The Government of Switzerland has disclosed that it had returned to the Nigerian government about $700m looted by late military Head of State, General Sani Abacha. 
    Switzerland Ambassador to Nigeria, Dr. Hans-Rudolf Hodel, made this known in Abuja recently at a press briefing ahead of a two-day seminar on Anti Money Laundering and Combating Financing of Terrorism.
     The envoy asserted that the Swiss government was ready to reopen the case if Nigerian government presents concrete evidence of any other money still being held in any Swiss bank, noting that Switzerland had no interest in withholding illicit funds. He said his country had returned about $1.7bn to their countries of origin in the last 15 years.

     "Switzerland and Nigeria agreed to request the World Bank to participate in the review of the use of funds, in the framework of a budget control process of various welfare projects," he said.
     He disclosed that his country was yet to receive any request for information on the November 4 Berne Declaration report: Swiss Traders Opaque Deals in Nigeria, which allegedly accused the Nigeria National Petroleum Corporation of conniving with some Swiss-based oil firms of fraudulent deals, worth $6.8bn.
     "I have no knowledge that we have been contacted by the authorities. In case they will start proceedings and they will need our help; of course, with international legal cooperation, we will help them if they approach us. But until now, they have not approached us," he said.

    'Magun' kills Honourable during sexual act of adultery

    Posted: 26 Nov 2013 07:26 AM PST

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    Late Hon. Raphael Oloye Nomiye.

    Findings have revealed that the sudden demise of Honourable Raphael Oloye Nomiye, the representative of the Ilaje/ Ese Odo Federal Constituency of Ondo State might have occurred after a sexual encounter with a female banker who was believed to be one of his account officers in his private residence in 2nd Avenue, Gwarimpa, Abuja.
    While confirming the incident, the PRO of the Federal Capital Territory (FCT) Police Command, Hyelhira Altine Daniel disclosed that investigations are still ongoing as regards what led to the death of the lawmaker.
    According to some of the Honourable's neighbours, the lady reportedly rushed down to inform the lawmaker's security details that "oga just fell down and is vomiting blood."

    Street Journal gathered that by the time the security officers entered Hon Nomiye's bedroom, he was found on the floor with a towel around his waist as he bled from the mouth. He was rushed in his official car, a Toyota Camry with registration number "148B REP" to a private clinic in the neighbourhood. The Doctors at the clinic were said to have told them that it was more than what they could handle, thus prompting the movement of the Honourable to the National Hospital. He was pronounced dead at the hospital.
    Street Journal gathered that the female banker who saw the lawmaker last is presently being held at the Gwarimpa Police Division. She has reportedly made useful statements to the police.
    It is believed in some quarters that the late Honourable fell victim to "magun", an african charm normally used to track down unfaithful women. The existence of "magun" as well as its efficacy have however remained very difficult to prove scientifically.

    Who knew late legendary playwright Hubert Ogunde had 12 wives?

    Posted: 26 Nov 2013 07:16 AM PST

    Who knew legendary actor, playwright, theatre manager, and musician Hubert Ogunde had 12 wives? Pictured above with eight of his twelve wives in 1969. 

    Ogunde, described as 'the father of Nigerian theatre,' founded the Ogunde Concert Party in 1945, the first professional theatrical company in Nigeria. He died in 1990 at the age of 73. 

    Lol. Another Naija celeb takes a swipe at 'upcoming' celebrities

    Posted: 26 Nov 2013 07:39 AM PST

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    Happy Birthday to MAVIN Boss - Don Jazzy.  He clocked 31 today.  Another photo below:


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    Is this a new trend, where celebs take swipes at each other about their supposedly 'fake lifestyles' on social media? Singer Lami Philips is the latest celebrity to add her voice. She posted an article on her blog titled Celebrity Mumuism where she called out 'upcoming' celebs on their 'lies'. See below..
    Now whenever upcoming "celebs" post pictures with other established "celebs" in clothes from a stylist they have paid approximately 20k or so and with bling that aint quite bling….talking about " we outchea making it happen"…then wait till after the function to hitch a ride knowing they squatting at some friends place and don't know where their next meal is coming...I tag that as mumuism. The interesting thing is that this "mumuism" has a snowball effect. Other people see it and want to be like them and quit school or work in the hopes that they also can one day take pictures with these people.
    At the risk of sounding like a sour grape…when all is said and done…common sense will never be outdated. I don't see the sense in creating a false image of success at the detriment of your own peace of mind.
    I get it if your "faking it till you make it" but the "faking it" process better have a plan and a timeline if not your going to wind up being that person people use as a bad example.


    Oh now I feel bad already! I should be nice right?! I shouldn't go in on the fatally insecure ones who would do just about anything to be "popular". Hey ..if you can "Kim Kardashian" your quest and somehow make money from it…..great!! BUT, if all you focus on is how to get in on paparazzi pics after spending money you don't have on a makeup artiste and stylist …then you end up being the "….and friend" tag in the spread of pics.,….I say "epic fail".

    My take on life is figure out what you are actually good at , perfect that talent /skill, and then map out a plan to make it work for you without compromising the essence of your sincere identity.

    At the end of the day, all these people we try to impress aint going to bed thinking about us and will move on when the next person comes along serving something slightly close to your offering.
    You've got to figure out who you are (with the help of your creator) and make that work for you.
    It makes no sense to struggle at being someone else!! God didn't create clones or Robots. If He wanted to He would have. He created Unique human beings….so do that…be Unique…Be you….

    These are the random musings of Lami. Phillips… till my next rant…. Stay happy and drink coffee… xx
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    PHOTO: Ladies You Can Now Lock Your Husband’s Male Organ Till He Returns Back To You

    Posted: 26 Nov 2013 06:13 AM PST

    Hahaha God bless the inventor. So some men think they can be cheating up and down…oops not ANYMORE, lol..... And male chastity devices have all the answers to that. There's a new device in town, where ladies can lock up the male organs of their partners to prevent them from cheating. Here is how it's been advertised.

    Male chastity devices restrict a man from touching his genitals for sexual pleasure. The male chastity device gives the Keyholder control over the sexual fulfilment of both partners by denying the wearer the touch he has had all of his life. His focus is now on when he can experience sexual gratification, and the Keyholder has complete control over the wearer's pleasure. This denied access means the wearer must please the Keyholder in order to receive the pleasure he craves.


    Now the question is how many men will accept this?

    Say what? Zimbabwe outlaws Nigerians from trading in their country

    Posted: 26 Nov 2013 05:58 AM PST

     
    According to news reports, starting from January next year, Nigerians trading in Zimbabwe will no longer be allowed to. Zimbabwean authorities said they have given foreign shop-owners, mostly Chinese and Nigerian nationals, an ultimatum to shut down their businesses by January. 1, 2014.

    From Integrity Reporters 
    A top official of the black empowerment ministry said only Zimbabweans had the right to run shops that have sprung up across the country and are termed foreign businesses targeted under the nation's black empowerment laws, the state-controlled Herald newspaper reportedFriday.
    Those laws, passed in 2007, demand foreign businesses to cede 51 percent control to local blacks. The foreign shop owners have been criticized for taking retail trade opportunities from Zimbabwean traders by selling cheap imports.
    Poor townships and city flea markets have in recent years been inundated by shops run by foreigners. According to state media, shop owners who fail to comply will be arrested

    Who rocked this Victoria Beckham dress?

    Posted: 26 Nov 2013 05:56 AM PST

    Nicole Scherzinger, Victoria Beckham, Blake Lively and Jennifer Hudson in a banded minidress from Victoria Beckham's spring/summer collection. Who rocked it?

    Pics: National Carrier Nigerian Eagle plane sighted ahead of launch

    Posted: 26 Nov 2013 05:55 AM PST

    Nigeria's oldest airline, Aero Contractors has reportedly changed its name to Nigerian Eagle and will be the national carrier. A Boeing 737-500 wearing the national colours is currently parked in a private hangar at the Murtala Muhammed International Airport, Lagos. The new national carrier will be unveiled in the coming days. Photos courtesy - Auto Focus Blog

    D'Banj and Don Jazzy Back Together: Working On New Song

    Posted: 26 Nov 2013 05:54 AM PST

    A source close to D'Banj and his former producer and partner, Don Jazzy, has told OluFamous.Com that times have changed and the two men are back together as good friends and have decided to work together.

    Since separating from each other, D'banj has not released any song that is as strong and with National appeal as it used to be when Don Jazzy was his producer. Also, Don Jazzy on his part has not been able to produce any hit with his new crew like it used to be when D'Banj was around.

    So, don't be surprised if you hear a new hit song from D'banj and Don Jazzy any time soon. The good days are back for lovers of good music in Naija and I hear the atmosphere is charged to deliver something that would be worth the long breaks.

    #GetReadyToDance

    UNBELIEVABLE: Naija Woman Bites Off A Married Man's Pénis

    Posted: 26 Nov 2013 05:51 AM PST

    It was a terrible sight on Sunday evening as a middle aged woman, identified as Kemi, bit off the manhood of her neighbour around the Inalende area of Ibadan, Oyo State. Kemi was said to have resorted to biting, according to an eyewitness, after she was thoroughly beating by the man, identified simply as Rasheed.
    Speaking on what made her cut off a man's manhood with her teeth, Kemi said: "He reported me and my friend to my friend's mother in-law after she arrived at our house and thereafter started to beat me and when nobody rescued me from him, I bit him but I do not know it was his pénis."
    It was gathered that issues on how to settle a misunderstanding between Rasheed's wife and another woman degenerated into a violent fight. It was during the process of partisan interference that Kemi angrily tore the man's dress, held his manhood and bit it off Mr Rasheed's manhood live.

    Aside from the manhood which was bitten off, she also inflicted a big sore on the man's abdomen. Rasheed was later rescued and rushed to a nearby hospital in the area for medical attention while Kemi was handed over to men of the Nigeria Police Force in the nearby police station.

    Kemi, a mother of two, further said they had not been on speaking terms since she relocated to the area in June and Rasheed's wife had not been greeting her and her friend. "My friend, Adijat, has not been greeting and talking with Rasheed's wife, I know that was why he decided to engage me in a fight," she added.

    Unfortunately, Kemi is going to prison as the police is already in the process of arraigning her in court.

    Hilarious Tweet: Comedian Saka and Money Loving Igbo Pastor

    Posted: 26 Nov 2013 05:48 AM PST

    Oh no...why should that Igbo Pastor name his twins "Tithe and Offering" nau? **LWKMD**

    Boobs Alert: What Is This Naija Babe Doing On Her Bed?

    Posted: 26 Nov 2013 05:47 AM PST

    Is this babe trying to pray or she is just getting "dirty" in a wrong way? See the full photo below...




    #SomeGilrsJustDoCrazyThings

    How To Be Romantic. 10 Steps To Being A Ladies’ Man

    Posted: 26 Nov 2013 05:43 AM PST

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    INTRODUCTION
    Romance can happen in so many ways. It comes as a form of surprise and it is spontaneous. For romance to occur or for one to be romantic, you've got to have a plan. There has to be sacrifice, effort and time giving involved.
    Guys please, be honest and sincere with yourselves, if you know that you are the "nice guy" type who is yet to find a good and stable relationship, FORGET ROMANCE for now. This will only put you in a worse state which I do not intend. Work on yourself first.
    This article is aimed at teaching and helping guys and men who already have a good and stable relationship but are always busy, are on the verge of a declining good relationship or are just looking out ways to maintain their relationship and make it better.
    In order to be romantic, you should:

    (1) Create Time: In order to be romantic, you need to spend time with your loved one frequently no matter how busy you are. Spend time, Call, text, chat and communicate to show you're thinking of her.
    (2) Make Sacrifices: If you want to be romantic, you will need to make sacrifices once in a while like giving up your favorite game, show, hanging out with friends or colleagues, e.t.c just to be with your loved one.
    (3) Be Generous: Learn to be generous to your partner by taking her out to nice places once in a while just to give her a good treat. By doing this, you show that you appreciate her and thus you are being romantic.
    (4) Be thoughtful: You should care to think of ways to make your relationship with your lover blossom. Know her likes, dislikes, what she loves to do, her favorite color, e.t.c.
    (5) Be interested: This is one of the most important aspects of being romantic. If you are looking for ways to be romantic with your partner because you are being nagged or compelled to be romantic, and not because you are truly interested in your partner, being romantic may be burdensome, tiring and frustrating.
    Men usually get too busy with work and other activities that they forget little and important things like these. So having considered all these things, let us move on to some ways to be romantic:
    (1) Date Your Partner: Learn to go out on dates with your loved one. Look out for interesting places that you could visit and spend time.
    (2) Get busy for your partner: Don't just sit around leaving all the work to your loved one all the time. You should do something too. Once in a while, you can help with the online registration; do the shopping, clear the garbage in the house, e.t.c.
    (3) Make the moment memorable: Once in awhile, you can get her a special thing that you know she likes on your way from work. It does not matter how little it is. It could be a small greeting card; it could be her favorite flower, perfume, make-up kit, e.t.c. It does not have to be anything big or expensive. Just make sure that it is something she likes.
    (4) Be positive: Remember that the little time you have dedicated just to be with her should be positive. Don't spoil the fun here by being negative.
    (5) Be a gentleman: Never forget to always be a gentleman. Respect her and everyone around, don't curse, don't scream, be kind and patient.
    CONCLUSION
    If you want to be happy with your loved one and intend to keep a good relationship, it is important that you don't miss out being romantic with your partner. Cheers

    How To Keep Your Relationship Alive. 10 Easy & Practical Tips

    Posted: 26 Nov 2013 05:39 AM PST

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    INTRODUCTION
    A relationship involves two people and for it to work, it is important for both parties to be willing to make it work. One person alone cannot make a relationship work. In some cases, there is nothing you can do to keep the relationship because the other party is not willing to make the relationship work and worth keeping. So let us look at some things that do not make a relationship work or worth keeping such as:
    (1) No Interest: In this case, either one or both parties had no genuine interest in each other to start with or in some cases, one of the partners or both partners lost interest over the course of the relationship.
    (2) Bad Attitude: A partner or both partners with a bad attitude cannot keep a relationship. Bad attitude such as impatience, constant nagging and complaining, greed, cheating, pride e.t.c usually lead to the death of a relationship.
    (3) Lack of Communication: A relationship where a partner or partners do not communicate their feelings, wants, expectations or challenges will be hard to keep.

    (4) Lack Of Appreciation: Appreciation can happen through romance and affection. A partner or partners that lack these qualities may not be able to keep a relationship.
    (5) No respect: when you tend to take your partner for granted and therefore lack respect as a result of being too familiar or close with each other, you may not be able to keep a relationship with your partner.
    Even though you might get or see any of these bad signs, you may be very lucky to still be able to work it out and keep the relationship, but in most cases it is too late. So assuming you already have a good and stable relationship, let us look at some ways in which you can keep your relationship:
    (1) Respect: In order to keep your relationship with your partner, you should always respect them. Most people get to mess up in this area when they are close and very familiar with their partner. You should always respect your partner even though they offend you or are lacking in some areas because you have chosen to be with them.
    (2) Communication: Always try to communicate with your partner with love about your issues. Don't wait until resentment builds. Sometimes, you need to let them know what you want, the issues bothering you, e.t.c. Remember that no one is perfect. Its also important to engage your partner in meaningful conversations. Learn about their study or work. Be part of their lives.
    (3) Showing love: There are different ways to tell your partner that you love her by expressing it. Take the time to look out for ways to show love. Never miss the opportunity to let them know you value. Also understand that what works for Lady A won't necessarily work for Lady B likewise Mr X and Mr Y may understand different love languages. Learn, ask and understand so you can speak your partner's love language. Some like gifts, some quality time while others prefer words of affirmation.
    (4) Showing appreciation: Learn to be romantic and affectionate. It makes her feel wanted and appreciated. Being romantic and affectionate is very important in keeping your relationship.
    (5) Looking Good: Always continue to look good for your girl or man. Shave when you need to, trim your hair, look clean and maintain a good appearance. For ladies, take care of your body, skin, clothes etc to be attractive always.
    CONCLUSION
    You can never be too busy to maintain your relationship if you are serious about keeping one. These are just guidelines to get you started. Always look for ways to improve on yourself and your good relationship skills from the right source and you will never find yourself deserted.

    Photo: ‘This Lady Means A Lot To Me’- Ice Prince

    Posted: 26 Nov 2013 05:32 AM PST


    PHOTO: This Lady Means a Lot to Ice Prince, But Who is She?
    Rapper Ice Prince is definitely in high spirits. The singer successfully launched his new album "Fire of Zamani" yesterday.
    He also seems happy in this photo which he shared via Instagram as he says the lady beside him "means a lot to him."
    He tagged it: "You mean a lot to me! Safe trip back home"
    Guess who is she?

    PHOTO: How Nollywood Actress Sent To Prison For Stealing Was Betrayed By Her Friends

    Posted: 26 Nov 2013 05:29 AM PST

    Nollywood actress, Yetunde Akilapa who was sent to Kirikiri Prison, Apapa, Lagos around February 2013, for allegedly being in possession of 100 master key has been discharged and acquitted of the theft charges brought against her. 
    Yetunde Akilapa was arrested around February and detained at Alade Police station in Somolu after she was accused of stealing a bunch of keys.
    In a statement by her lawyer, Yetunde Akilapa said the keys she was caught with were used in her new movie, Bunmi Akata and that she was arrested after being framed by people she regarded as friends.
    The case filed under Charge no F/10/13 COP v Yetunde Akilapa was dismissed for want of diligent prosecution.

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